I was reading an article on the poet Rumi and how he saw "unhappy love" stories as a good thing. That although these terribly powerful relationships end up extremely hurtful, you have the ability to not only learn, but actually grow into something even more spectacular than you could ever imagine. When someone breaks you down to your core, you're forced to look at all of you. The good, the bad, the hidden. It's all exposed. And in that potentionally life altering moment, you